Marriage Is Not An Experimental Laboratory : Counsellor Adofoli
A well renowned marriage counselor in Ghana, Frank Edem Adofoli
has stated plainly that “marriage is not a playground or a laboratory
for experiments but a lifelong walk between two mature people”. He
further elaborated on this on his Facebook page that it is not a game
for boys and girls and that if couples were alleged to marry, then they
should be prepared enough for it.
“These days people go into relationships to seek for help, they go
into relationships to look for someone to become what they want to be,
to achieve their personal dreams and ambitions. But one thing they
forget is, when you depend on people to build you up, you are equally
giving them power over you. You are making them your god. It’s God who
can help you become what He wants you to be, not a man or woman” – He
said.
And consequently added that, “if your aim is to look for someone to
feed you, you should be okay when they starve you. You don’t expect such
people to know your worth and value when you sold it so cheap to them
in the first place. It is like giving them the right to disrespect you
at any time; for they feel you are indebted to them for who you are.”
“Marriage is not a playground or a laboratory for experiments but a lifelong walk between two mature people. It’s not a…
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